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LadyShadow · Apr 11, 2024 at 08:41 PM

((((((hugs))))))) @Lavendercrandberry I am so sorry you are going through this

I was in your shoes years ago, when I would basically engage with all these men online, selling myself short of the beautiful person I really am.

I think we fall into the trap of defining our self-worth on the actions of another, when in fact, they are the ones with the issue not you.

I am here to tell you all those girls on his Facebook that you think have it "all together" have their own issues and it's all for show.

After going through 15 years of basing my self-worth on men, I have come to the point in my life where I enjoy being alone, and if maybe one day I meet someone then so be it, but until then, I try to enjoy life as much as I can. I don't know your situation, but I bet you are in fact, very beautiful and kind, or he wouldn't have been attracted to you in the first place. He's the jerk for ghosting you, I hope you can see that.

I know you can get through this, message me anytime if you want to talk.