I’m so sorry. It seems like there’s a lot more divorcing late in life recently. I’m very sorry it was a one sided affair in your case. Can you find an over 55 community to join? I’m not recently divorced ( that was long ago) but I found a senior apartment building and there’s many activities and nice people here. Many more women than men, but that’s par for course I think. We play poker one evening a week and that’s more men than women. The potluck is also about even.