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Maybe it's my fault he lied and ghosted me
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You can't take responsibility for somebody else's actions or behaviors. HE is choosing to behave appallingly.
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I just want a happy ending with someone who genuinely cares for me
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His actions reflect his true character. Better to see his true colors *now* than after years of being in a 'relationship' with him. He clearly does not care about you.
I hear the pain of being rejected but would you really want to be in a relationship with someone who shows so many red flags? And because you write that this is a long-standing pattern, it would be worth exploring your pattern(s) of attraction in relationships.
Not saying you are doing anything wrong but sometimes we are attracted to the 'wrong' people, and there are generally warning signs that we choose to ignore. Awareness of these patterns can help avoid more heartache. You do not deserve to be treated this way, by *anyone*.