Thanks again, LadyShadow. I hate to dump this on you but do you realize you're my only friend? I have nobody... even my older brother treats my struggle like some kind of a gag. He went through a HORRIFIC divorce twenty years ago and I had him on the phone every day, telling me how awful everything was; I was completely supportive. Now it's my turn on the Wheel-O-Pain and he's "Meh. So what". Nice.