...Someone who has/has had mental health issues or someone perfectly healthy who is completely ignorant about these issues?
I'm assuming we all have at least some experiences of mental health issues.
I'm not sure if my partner is perfectly healthy in the head - but I know he isn't perfectly insane either. He's been to a psychotherapist in the past though

For panic attacks. Therapist said he was too introverted - and he didn't think it was a problem at all.
For me, he's pretty healthy in the end. I have all these crazy diagnoses and have been through the emotional rollercoaster - I don't think another person with similar issues, or with any mental issues could have been able to put up with me.
Even though my partner is somewhat ignorant (like, he can't understand how much I love being manic, or that my depression is a different type of depression), he tries his best to be understanding. I know he is trying, and I also know it gets very hard for him at times. But even trying is more than enough for me.
Needless to say, I'm happy.
So, what do you folks think?
This ignited an interesting discussion on a Finnish board. :-)
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