((((((((((((Griffe)))))))))))))))

It is important that you look after yourself right now in your grief. This is a personal matter for you and your family, noone else has a say in it .... ignore the people who are hurting you, you don't need them in your life .... gentle hugs sweetie, please take care and don't let others get you down .... and i will listen to my own advice for once on this matter

love Jinny xoxoxoxoxoxo