I am absolutely so angry, and this is the state I have been trying to stay out of
and have for almost 18 years. Another one of my, white trash, deadbeat friends
has pushed me to the edge. I absolutely cannot let him get away with this and I
am not friggin' going to. I sit at my home with Stage 4 cancer waiting to expire
as my Oncologist so eloquently puts it. This guy, who I have known since grade
school thinks he can just run all over the top of me. He shows up about 8
months ago at my house, I am not sure how he got here, maybe he was miracled,
here. Otherwise he never calls or comes by, even though he lives less than 15 minutes away.
He had his iPhone turned off for not being able to pay the bill for three months
and asked for $2,200/USD to catch the bill up so it would be reactivated. Swore
he would get it back to me as soon as possible. Then another month later, the
miraculous happens again! He shows up, and has his daughter staying with him.
The dog was sick and needed surgery, is what he told me, he is in need and I am
an animal lover, So the procedure was $1,000/USD and he is like I will call you
and set up up a payment plan, you know I am good for it. I tried to call him to
ask about the money, that is a pittance to me but the principle is a big thing. He
puts his girlfriend on the phone, who is a big lush, and would not even talk to me.
He had worked for the United States Postal Service for ever 20 years. He got fired
for cause because he was not showing up for work. This is just some of the stuff I
have done for this guy. USPS was going to fire him before and I used my
influence as section chief at the national lab at the last job I had overseeing
medical research. Able to help him preserve his job, this time, I am sick and in
home hospice so there was nothing I could do. He goes to work at some new
Amazon facilities they built here, making half of what he did. This is bad on me,
but he wanted to join the Navy when we were younger but did not meet the I.Q,
requirements for entry, I did the kind of thing I would normally never do, I took
the ASVAB entry test battery for him and scored in the top 1%. So, they took him
of course at that point. I should not have done that, it was wrong and but
thought he was my friend.
His second tour of the Navy, he crashed a missile cruiser, that was going through
the Panama Canal, got the Captain fired and got the boot. Again I stepped in,
my sister was working for a boating manufacturer plant/facility and the guy that
was the general manager had retired from the Coast Guard as a cutter Captain. I
know his guy well, as I got to know him once I got back from the army. I asked
him, and he helped him to enter the Coast Guard for one final tour.
His father is now 84 years of age, he made off with over $200,130/USD because
his dad had him on the account. He has rheumatoid arthritis, and the type of
prostate cancer they are sure has spread but the PET imagery is just not good
enough to pick it up where it may be. It's called Bioremedial Staging. So he is
trying to live off of his social security check, barely makes it, so I went to my bank
and arranged for $350/USD per month to be deposited into his account when
his Social Security is, to help the old man get by. I get out when I am sick, and
take him to doctors appointments, because this moron is too busy running the
roads to do it. Now, he will not even talk to me on the phone? When we were in
high school I had much pent up rage because of what had happened to me as a
kid. People used to call this guy Gorilla Grodd minus the genius factor. Well
when I got hold of them they didn't fare too well, only trouble I ever got in
during school. Now he won't even have the decency, or the courage to talk to
me on a phone?
His lush of a girlfriend, is such a brainiac, she got drunk and took off with her
German Shepard in the back of a Dodge truck. She got on the interstate, the
poor dog blew out the back, and was killed, and she hit two other vehicles. I paid
to have that fixed, as it was his only way to get to work. I am getting very angry
with this individual, and when I was younger this would not even be a post, he
would be running from me. This is absolutely horrible to have someone you
thought was your friend take such blatant advantage of you. I will still help his
father, it is not his fault, other than maybe he did not deal with him better when
he was younger, Why? oh Why? If my mum were still alive and I did anything
like this at 53 she would still wallop me upside the head.