My mom told me i should be responsible for all my siblings well being. My thing is that, my brothers even with the autism, seem more wellrounded. They are clean and thrive on order/patterns and are more receptive to directive advice. The older one of the 2 even has nice group of friends that come around the house sometimes and they both have hobbies.

They are making efforts to be the best that they can be, within their capacities, hence i'm less worried about them and wouldn't mind helping them later on. But, my sister is not even trying and is punishing people around her for wanting a better life for her.