Hey Dee, its an interesting situation. It doesn't sound like there is enough common ground (interests, attitude, etc) for you guys to be friends, but if she is a neighbor that's awkward, especially as she doesn't sound like she picks up on social queues very well. The only thing I can think of you have kind of already done - which is to say you are ok with doing things together occasionally but you don't feel like you have a lot in common. However I get the feeling she will choose to ignore all or some of that message. I feel for you, its a tricky situation.