The biggest one was walking out on my 33 year marriage after my mom died. He refused to make divorce easy so I sold my mom's house I then owned in a Trust, took my inheritance (exactly 17 years ago this week) & flew 2100 miles away with my dog Leo to find a small farm to buy. First time living alone in all those 54 years of life was the best thing I ever did. Love my life & it is wonderful every morning watching sunrise over my woods. First peace I ever have had in my life