We have a plan for my sister. She’s going back to London today- stay with our parents, join a female only wework equivalent for a month. Travel back on exam days. No exams in July.

Whilst still paying in excess of £750 a month in rent for her current place. Thankfully her current contract ends in August, and she didn’t sign the extension for next year.

There’s an 11 year gap between us, but I was honestly surprised by how dysregulated she was.

(I know I used to be very unstable- but don’t feel therapy that taught me how to cope with distress, but it was the regular massages that helped more in getting back in my body).