Is he overly sensitive to any criticism or is ot just me? Example, earlier this morning he put on some strong cheap cologne that smelled bad.

I didn’t tell him that it smelled. I just told him that he used a little to much of it & to please use less next time as it’s very strong.

He got upset & he told me to stop complaining He dismisses & gaslights me everytime I try to express any opinion or thought that isn’t 100% upbeat & positive.

It’s like he expects me to be happy & not complain about anything at all which is ridiculous.

He is a stoic person & he doesn’t like to express emotions or deal with them at all.

How can I talk to him without being accused of complaing or being negative? He often says things like I don’t want to hear it or shut up instead of listening to me talk.

Why is he like this?