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Old May 04, 2024, 11:13 AM
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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight View Post
I'm not giving him an ultimatum though? I'm saying how it's painful that he might not take it with him. And might not accept something else. I'm not saying, "Put something of mine in your office or I'll terminate."
But thats exactly what youve said. Here, if not yet there. Your not talking about the hurt of his rejection, your talking about losing the power
struggle. But by making it about the power struggle, you can pretend you are not fearful of his rejection, you pretend it doesnt exist, you pretend he loves you, but in reality you only win the power struggle, not his love.

Instead of playing "he loves me, he loves me not", you do something unspeakable to that poor daisy.
Thanks for this!
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