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Originally Posted by stopdog
I have not seen where you are talking about the pain of the loss - the focus I have read about here is on getting him to act differently - not you wanting to talk about your fish connection. That is where I am saying it doesn't seem to line up - you say you want to talk about the pain but your descriptions here are about getting him to act differently. I mean - the it is so small, and how would it hurt to have the fish there, and so on - that is about how he acts - not how you talk about pain.
I am just giving my observations on it -if you don't think they fit then okay..
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We have talked about the pain and his trying to understand it. I just don't write every single moment from my sessions here, so I can understand why you got a different impression. Like he was also saying he wanted to understand what it meant for me to have the fish in the office, if it was about my having a sort of presence there, and we discussed that a couple sessions ago.