Rem, it's so great you had a good talk with your dad and set your boundaries as well. That's cool. I've also been reading your other posts around the site and I think it's awesome that you're being proactive in your health and quitting drinking and cutting down on smoking. I know you're doing it for medical reasons, but hopefully it'll help you in everyday life too. Feel free to PM me if you ever need to talk if you get urges...