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eskielover · May 08, 2024 at 12:38 PM

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Originally Posted by RDMercer

@eskielover

I think you are right. I really feel that is where I am at. This is a safe spot to be right now.

RDMercer

That was where I realized I needed to be when I left. No more complications thrown into my life until I knew I was healed from all I had gone through because otherwise I thought I might make a similar mistake again or I would just carry my anger into a new relationship if triggered in the same way. Lol....it's been 17 years (May 15) since I left & I have never been happier. The happy & peace keeps growing. My friends I have are solid friends & for me, that is what is important. A life that is stable & as financially sound as possible & a good relationship with my daughter though states apart is so much better than life really ever was.

I enjoyed doing the things & going the places I went in my marriage but looking back, I enjoyed the experiences for the experiences, not who I was with & that truly was eye opening to me about all those years in the marriage. I realized walking our path through life was only merged by a marriage license, not a real soul connect