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Default May 08, 2024 at 08:41 PM
 
I've pulled back from some of my wife's demands. At first I felt guilty. But then I'd see her get herself a snack or a drink refill when she was too impatient to wait for me to finish a chore.

It occurred to me that if she could be self-sufficient, she should. By helping her too much, I'm allowing her to atrophy.

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