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Bill3
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Default May 10, 2024 at 09:25 PM
 
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My sister will likely be there and my mother will have all three of us "talk" it out.
What do you think of this scenario?

Would it be possible to stay in a hotel?

I'm really sorry that your last therapist ghosted you.

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My gut is telling me to make the drive to see my niece (even without H). H worries about me and doesn't want me to make the far drive alone.
H is a peach to offer to drive you and not go to the wedding.

The danger of listening to your gut is that it might be telling you what it is habituated by your toxic upbringing to tell you. My suggestion, then, is to always reflect carefully, perhaps with your husband, on what your gut tells you, before deciding to follow it or not follow it.
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