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Originally Posted by Discombobulated
I don’t think it’s within you or anyone else to alter his behaviour. He’d have to want to change, and it doesn’t sound like he feels change is necessary.
If he was open to listening you could try in a calmer moment asking if you two could talk and explaining how you feel about his behaviour using “I feel” statements. But this might not work if he’s entrenched in ignoring and dismissing you.
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I’ll try talking to him but it won’t do sny good probably as everything is always my fault or I am ‘raising my voice’ or bring to sensitive’. He thinks that it’s OK for him to raise his voice & yell at me, but sny hint of emotion in my voice is reason n enough for him to dismuss & ignore me.
I think thst he purposely talks over & interrupt me to get me to give up & leave him alone as he has zero interest in having any kind of healthy discussion at all.
It’s like emotions bother him & he can’t deal with any strong emotions that aren’t 100% positive.