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May 14, 2024, 11:22 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2004
Location: Kentucky, USA
Posts: 25,062
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Originally Posted by ArmorPlate108
When the "emotional vampire" leaves the castle, then it's safe for everyone else to feel, and express themselves, again  |
So very true & when they feel safe & peace & calm, THEY KNOW they held no blame because it didn't continue on after the vampire was gone.
That is how I knew I was not to blame in my marriage after I left because my issues with it didn't follow me to my new life across the country. Only issues that hit are still things related to him that I am still trying to clean up.
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Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this.
Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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