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Default May 14, 2024 at 11:22 AM
 
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Originally Posted by ArmorPlate108 View Post
When the "emotional vampire" leaves the castle, then it's safe for everyone else to feel, and express themselves, again
So very true & when they feel safe & peace & calm, THEY KNOW they held no blame because it didn't continue on after the vampire was gone.

That is how I knew I was not to blame in my marriage after I left because my issues with it didn't follow me to my new life across the country. Only issues that hit are still things related to him that I am still trying to clean up.

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