Pachyderm, You know until you pointed this out I didnt' realise that this is all bound up in shame. When I have positive feelings toward a woman, I feel intense shame..unyet when I see a man that I find attractive, I just take it in my stride and let myself enjoy thinking about him...
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Here is the test to find whether your mission on earth is finished. If you're alive, it isn't. ~Richard Bach
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