i need myself also for everyone to like me, but i know not everyone will. look at the people who do love you and try not to dwell on the ones who dont. they are trying to get under your skin but dont let them. i do hope and pray you be yourself in situations where you feel unloved. what i have learned recently is that some of the unlikeable people were actually becoming my friends. i guess they thought they had no choice knowing i would be around a while!