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TheGal
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Default May 18, 2024 at 07:02 PM
 
I'd read Baggage Reclaim blog by Natalie Lue.

Here's an example of an article that is about how values are different than interests, how to understand your core values:

Understanding your core values in relationships (no they're not your common interests)

Just know that you're probably going to date around a bit before you settle down. Know that the "love effect" is addictive, and we tend to "idealize" our love interest and negate red flags.

And you want to know that you're with someone who has similar values to yours when you do settle down.

It's very early days... I would say it's a coincidence you met this person you're now interested in, rather than put it down to God's mysterious ways... It's way too early to make a big statement like that, save that one for your wedding day when you've found a tried and true life partner.
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