Yeah. My dad said and did some stuff to me when I was young, and brought me to a neighbor I'm pretty sure he knew was abusing me, although I don't know if he encouraged in, but he let it happen regardless. He gave me only downers and frequently brought a bad crowd in the place. Taught me how to get drugs without money, and that unfortunately stuck with me/came back in times of active addiction) if that counts too.

I had an ex that started fighting me with a group of his friends, friends joined in, and one that I was close to said he said if anything goes down with my bytch, you gotta bring "the psycho" down. Don't remember if that was the exact words, but I do remember the word psycho being used.

A lot of times though I got myself in these situations and made them worse though. If I had any common sense and a sense of agency most of this wouldn't have happened.