So the plan is Victoria gets a job. She saves for a year if she's able to get an able account. We continue to look for a place. She gets on the waiting list for income based apartments. In that time H gets to know gf. 2 years in they look for a condo. 3 years in we offer them moving in here if they haven't found anything. So we have at least a year. I know in reality it'll only be a couple of months but my anxiety is less.