Although I am apparently highjacking this thread for my own purposes, I thought I would write about something that happened to me. When I was just entering adolescence, my mother told me how babies got started. I found it unbelievable and appallingly disgusting -- that a man would actually put his penis into a woman. At the same time the thought was fascinating.
I have wondered how I got this kind of reaction, and why it later changed. I think that it was because all bodily functions, and especially anything to do with sex, were seen by my mother as being powerful and forbidden, and I certainly picked up that attitude. It affected a great many areas of my life, even things like eating habits.
Dictionary definition: forbidden fruit, a thing that is desired all the more because it is not allowed.
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Now if thou would'st
When all have given him o'er
From death to life
Thou might'st him yet recover
-- Michael Drayton 1562 - 1631
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