I’m going to name the things my parents did. Could you tell me if it’s covert sexual abuse?

Trigger Warning*****

1) My dad gave me a forced kiss and for some reason 30 + years I had a flashback about it. The kiss was like you are going to do this but I don’t know the context.I was under 11.
2) When I was 10 my father told me that my mother would not have sex with him.
3) Age 13 my mother made fun of my developing breasts in front of my older male cousin. Saying she could see them through my bathing suit when she was responsible for making sure I had one that actually fit properly.
4) Age 16 my mother came in while I was changing and told me my breasts looked like eyes and my p***y was fat. And she used to come in while I was showering and act like she was going to pinch my butt. She would also tell me the reason my boyfriend was with me was because I had big breasts.