@Lightening44 I am like the individual who answered you before me. I am in that small-town mentality around here. He should deal with this; the woman is exhibiting stalker-like behavior. There is only interaction between them because he takes part in it. He is 50% of the solution to that equation. That is one of the few things I was lucky at. Recently, I have had a good partner. I

would tell this man, you have a problem. Following you around makes me feel unsafe, and it must stop. If you have plans to stay with him, hopefully, he will respond. We may not like it, but sometimes you must do some feather-ruffling. I don't mean a physical confrontation or anything, but this boundary must be set with him. He brought it to your door. I'm sorry you are having to deal with this individual.