@Hanna2 welcome to MSF. I am sorry you feel a conflict going on with the therapist. That must have an impact on the benefit you get from therapy.
What I would be concerned about is your focus seems to have shifted from how can I get more out of therapy to how can I feed my romantic fantasies. To me this is not going to benefit you and may have a negative impact on your relationship with your partner and your therapist.
Have you considered that this also may be a sign of troubles in your relationship with your partner? Maybe that is something the therapist could help you with.
I see this happen a lot in therapy. They call it transference. Maybe your therapist knows how to handle this kind of thing professionally but that would take a willingness for you to not feed the fantasies.
CANDC
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