Thanks, Jersey. Yeah, he often does choose o offer a different perspective. And sometimes that can feel to me like I'm not being supported or that he thinks I was the one in the wrong (not that it's usually that black and white in reality). But I know he's just trying to help me and that if he just was like, "Yes, LT, you're exactly right and did everything perfectly" for every conflict and challenge I have, that wouldn't really get me anywhere. I do crave that at times though.