I think it really depends on who you select to speak to about such matters. If its a family member , they might feel more engaged to throw in their two cents because they feel they have that allowance and familiarity. If its someone more removed like a friend or associate, well... they may interpret your venting as asking for direction because they don't know you well enough to understand you're just venting. I think its always incumbent on the person speaking to make their intentions known because allot of people are searching for advice , so you need to be sure that distinction is made. If you encounter someone who has that kind of personality that chooses to impose their direction, then cease speaking to them about such topics or cease their direction early to avoid conflict by saying, "I'm on top of this. Lets move on to another topic." Just shut it down. It can be said pleasantly but pointedly.