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Jun 16, 2024 at 10:20 AM
@LostSavant I hear your concern. Living with uncertainty is difficult. I do not know how to solve that situation. As you probably know it is difficult to get someone help if they do not want it.
Some practical advice would be to have privacy locks on you and the other woman's bedroom doors and use them at night. If not possible even a chair leaning against the door can alert you to some one entering.
Have your phone available at all times.
It sounds like talking with him about getting treatment is triggering and may only be making things worse.
Look at all the possible options that are practical for you and see how much this is disrupting the lives of you two women.
Rather than focus on getting him help, my first advice would be to have a safety plan.
CANDC
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