But maybe she needs to talk about it again in whatever form it comes, that what I meant. I think I misunderstood your initial post though. I thought you were struggling with what kind of understanding things to say to her rather than wanting her to shut up with the repetition! Maybe temporarily block her if you feel awkward about asking her to stop talking about the situation? You can explain why you were out of touch at a later date if it's unusual for you to not have daily contact.