Just wanted to say good for you for going to a meeting. I go to AA myself and find it incredibly helpful. I have some friends who go to Alanon and find it really supportive. Hope it goes well.
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"I danced in the morning when the world was begun. I danced in the moon and the stars and the sun". From my favourite hymn.
"If you see the wonder in a fairy tale, you can take the future even if you fail." Abba