my stepfather was never really a father figure to me, but he was my friend. he called me when my mother left him and told me that he loved me and would always be there for me, but it was up to me if i wanted to continue the relationship. on of my 2 greatest regrets in life is that after a year or 2 i drifted away from him, and he died before i could find the time to get back to see him.

i would contact them and give them the chance to know that you still care. jmho

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