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Default Jun 21, 2024 at 06:24 AM
 
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Originally Posted by PhilMC View Post
Well it kind of is my problem. I've invested a lot into this dude since I was 17. Decades. To be honest I really have no clue why he behaves like this. But I get what you're saying.
Yea, just because WE choose to invest a lot into someone doesn't make it our problem....WE make it our problem.

I invested 33 years in my marriage but when it really started to destroy me I walked away. His choices were my problem when I was married to him. His behaviors & choices left me with financial issues but I chose for my own well being NOT to keep making him my problem. I have enough issues dealing with the stupid financial issues he caused....don't need to make his continuing bad choices be my problem. He has to live with them....not me

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