(( sunny ))

I think at this point I'd have to turn the tables on him and ask him why he seems to be feeling resistance to this topic. And I'd have to talk about the frustration around trying to get it into the discussion and how I felt about T's responses. Ask him if he thinks your wanting to talk about this is some kind of avoidance of some of the divorce / legal stuff.

Or walk into next session and tell him that "this" is what you'll be talking about today. If he wants to talk about something else then he can schedule an extra session for that.

It just sounds very frustrating to be heard, but not heard.