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Old Jun 23, 2024, 08:31 PM
InkyBooky InkyBooky is offline
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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight View Post
Like maybe it would be better if I didn't go? Like, would he prefer that? And I'd feel guilty if I went, even though he gave me permission? I don't know...
Did you get the sense he was really fine with it or were you picking up on some ambivalence from him? Perhaps he said "fine" but he was actually ambivalent or even wishing you wouldn't go there. And maybe you were able to intuit that even if it was somewhat unconscious on his part because it seems like you're pretty attuned to him (maybe even more attuned to him than he is to you).

Regardless of his intent though he did actually say it was fine, so you should go ahead and visit the office building (guilt free) if you want to!
Thanks for this!
ScarletPimpernel