I hope your time with your other sister was much better. You were there for 7 days so I hope it went well.

I find it interesting that your perception of your sister was “free spirit spontaneous don’t plan things person”, but her own perception of herself is “need to plan and have things in a calendar anxious when things are ambiguous” etc.

I agree with others about renting a car and getting a hotel next time. I also believe in keeping it short. Long vacations with family are only enjoyable if relationship is very close, healthy and stable. Otherwise it’s misery for all parties involved

I am glad it’s over and you got to do things in memory of your brother.

PS dang it, your brother in law…so rude… not talking to you, my sister’s in law husband is this way, not talking to my husband, literally ignoring, very minimal talking to me and we don’t even ever stay in their house. What’s wrong with people