((( Defective )))

So many thoughts running around in your head right now. You will never know the answers until you make the effort to contact them. Since they are both adults, they can choose who they stay in contact with or not. It should have nothing to do with their mom in that respect.

I think, if I were in their shoes, I would like to hear from you via email or letter or even a phone call. You certainly don't have to (nor should you really) go into detail as to what happened between you and their mom. All you have to do is tell them how you feel about them and that if they would like to keep the lines of communication open, then you would like that too. Of course, any discussion with them about your breakup should be kept to a minimum so as not to disparage their mom or yourself for that matter.

At their age I'm sure they are busy with building their lives, going out with friends, working, school, you know the typical young persons' life. So it's possible they may not have a lot of contact with you (I could be wrong). It may feel uncomfy for them too. Bottom line is this, you don't know if you don't ask!! If you contact them and they write back, then great....if they don't write back, then you still know where you stand no?

Wishing you well!


sabby