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There was something told me when I first got into therapy "you can't run awsy from your problems, they will follow you". The one important part they left out, was that assumes YOU are the problem.
I found my problem didn't follow me when I left. The problem stayed in Calif & even though he continued to do things caising me problems over the distance, I was NOT the one causing problems in my life but it showed me that I was the clean-up crew, not the one making the problems.
We are & never will be the cause of their problems but they always want to make us look like it because they NEVER want to be accountable for their bad choices.
Her prolems are no longer an active part of you & your kids lives. Her problems left when she did. You did not cause the problems or you would still be causing the problems. The priblems are ALL her own making & you hold NO responsibility for them at all
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Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this.
Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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