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LonesomeTonight
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Default Jun 25, 2024 at 04:44 PM
 
Dear T,

Still feel a bit sad about seeing your office in person for the last time today. But I felt the session was pretty connected, which was what I needed and had missed Sunday.

I want to talk more about how you understood I was looking for connection Sunday, but didn't want to give it in the way I was seeking. It would be good if, in the future, you could just acknowledge that. I know you said today you were concerned about hurting me. But it seems like it would hurt less if it felt like you picked up on what I was looking for. So I'd at least feel seen.

And it's a little thing, but your saying "take care" when I left felt nice (much better than "you're welcome" from last time). Then, after I turned back and said "goodbye, office," started crying, then apologized, your gently saying "It's OK" helped a lot.

Wish I could message you to let you know I arrive safely at my destination, but I know that's not what the relationship is. Talk to you Thursday.

Love,
LT
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