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Default Jun 28, 2024 at 05:43 AM
 
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Originally Posted by MuddyBoots View Post
When I said "never officially ended it" I don't mean I just walked away. I said "I don't want to talk to you anymore," and they kept trying to get me to talk to them, and I said "leave me alone," and they did not, and then I said "get the fcck away from me and go to hell," and then we didn't talk for a bit. Then came the excessive amount of "hey, you need to come back" messages, but we make plans and become attached again and they send me a pic of one of the men they've fccked? Yeah, I know I'm awful because I didn't directly say "I do not want to be in any sort of relationship with you."

Prior to the last bout of our relationship there was a period of not talking after our first bout of the relationship (I was out of state being drugged and fccked). I told them I don't trust them and freaked out about them being in pornos. They said they see I'm unwell and will give me space. Saw each other at the library when I wasn't crying and-boom-back to talking and fccking.

What do I say, word for word, to get them off my back? How do I say it without having a meltdown? I apparently need a step by step instruction guide because every time *I* end it either we get back together or she kills herself, so...obviously I'm bad at this.
That does place a bit more context to your situation, so it does appear the relationship was over. Perhaps they needed just to hear that spelled out, which it sounds like you just did with that call. I wish you the very best.
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