Dear T,

Also, OK, part of this is that I wish we had the sort of relationship where I could just shoot you a text saying, "Thinking about you with the move stress. How are you doing? Any updates?" Which is what I'd be doing with a friend or relative. I know I could email, and you'd reply tomorrow morning, but it's different. As I partly want to know how *you* are doing personally, and you tend to get squirrelly and closed off when I ask such things--I know, because the relationship is supposed to be about what's going on with me, not you. But, I care.

Love,
LT