Sorry peeps I pull this one back up but I like reading thoughts that ramble from a replier .. But I respect edahn ,,,, in a microcasam sort of way as a teacher of something that is there ? But is Maybe a reflection of a distant grain of sand that finds its' way into an oyster and may ,, may someday become a pearl ,
In the instinctual way of relationships and thoughts of does he or does she ?? ,mmmmmmmmmm??
Ya have to find a balancing act like on a High Wire that moves precariously left to right ,, with only you to choose to keep balance or plunge to the safety net below,,,

Arrogance has its' place >> It is called Confidence,,, without charm .

But ,,,,,, To quote Edahn >>. It's just a matter of digging through the pain >>> waking up >> and exploring something comfortable inside you , it's all there already