I found out that another ex-lover has become a crystal growing, sound bath seminar leading, bad poetry writing, full fledged woowoo. So now I have one who became a therapist and one who went over to this sort of woowoo side, and a couple of others who dabbled in it - in fact - I only have one ex-lover who did not become woowoo and we are still friends. I dated this one because I thought she had a really dry sense of humor and was quite surprised when it turned out she had absolutely no sense of humor at all. When breaking up she called me "too sardonic". My sincere question as to how much was just sardonic enough was not met with understanding. I have never thought I turned other women gay, but apparently I turn them woowoo.