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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
It’s ok to share your part in the overall problem. However @ RDMercer choosing to say the failure is all your fault can be a way of maintaining control of an illusion instead of facing a reality you can’t fix. |
Very profound, Open Eyes.
There's a slang term that applies to codependent and dysfunctional relationships - "crap-fitting." Sort of self explanatory, but many of us learned to modify ourselves, our perceptions, beliefs, and actions, to maintain relationships that are important to us. Most of us started doing this in childhood, when it was a matter of survival, but it becomes second nature.
It's a hard habit to break.
((((((((((RDM)))))))))