I'm sorry this situation is so fluid and frustrating, LT.
I know that feeling of 'If you're gonna change something, hurry up and change it already!' very well.
I think analogies must be fairly early on in Therapy School.
Seems like R got the memo, but P seemed to want to explain how animals respond to trauma.
I guess it's a question of taking it as it comes.
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