looking back, I think she worked harder than most therapists would have...I really think she was so torn by the transference that it just was like a cloud hanging over us during every session...I admire her for her courage to stay with it as long as she did

however, it did punch a pretty big hole in my heart and will take awhile to repair the damage....I was stupid enough to think somehow we were more than just a therapist/client...a tough lesson to learn